I have long believed how we process sex depends on the ground rules and nature of the relationship before orgasms are exchanged.

Chances are your company is figuring out how to better it’s image and build capital for the executives. They could care less about you and your Black president. Plus, negroes aren’t popular until they can pimp us for some change…and I don’t mean the Obama kind…

There is a reason there is a liquor store on almost every corner where black folks congregate. Furious Styles, Laurence Fishburne’s character in Boyz NThe Hood, said it best: “They want us to kill ourselves.” In his groovy yet illuminating song “The Bottle,” noted poet and vocalist Gil Scott Heron details the seduction of drugs better than my blog response ever could…

We don’t know if Ms. Wallace is getting some undisclosed payments from Bad Boy, but it did take The Lox making a public stink on the airwaves to get their publishing. Damn, why they tryin to stick me for my paper?

I’ve been with women that have been beaten, played and treated less than human but when I come in contact with them they act like I owe them more than they’ve ever gotten from any man. What is the deal with these sisters that say they want a good man get one and try to make him deal with all their crazy issues? And why does this never happen to the brothers that treat women wrong?

Carl, Wilmington, DE

I know they say keep your friends close and your enemies closer and that’s what some people on the radio have been saying about Obama picking Hillary for Secretary of State. How do you guys feel about this? Do you think Obama is making a mistake?

-Rachel, Jamestown, VA